Be aloof unavailable early dating stages

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I maintain my distance and dont initiate texts or the like but hes not making much of an effort in.

should I just be patient for a bit longer or forget about him???

I received a short facebook message applauding my writing and ignoring the content. Yet I also felt proud of myself for being heart-open and clear all the way through. We’re given the opportunity to grow and change, until one day, that pattern doesn’t even arise.

I sat in the unknown, staying open and present, seeing what might arise. It felt like the beginning of something that could be incredible and I was excited, nervous, vulnerable and open. Continuing with my practice of clear and heart-felt communication, I sent a text sharing how I felt. A few days later, I wrote an email, detailing it out. I felt like a fool because I’d ignored key clues in the first week or so as to the availability and nature of this man. We’re given the opportunity to see what this pattern is and choose how to respond to it.

Now I’ve written before about how neediness is a state of mind and not necessarily your actions. But I would be naive to think that some behaviors didn’t still look “desperate”, even if they’re coming from a healthy place. If I like someone, I’m going to talk to them and not overthink it.