Boyfriend has online dating profile

Put it this way: I don’t go to Amazon to browse books. There IS a temptation, for both men and women, to try to continually “trade up”.

But the whole point of dating – for most of us, anyway – is to find one person that makes you want to quit altogether.

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I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it.

I didn’t say anything for a couple of days because I was in shock and wanted to be calm when I discussed it with him. But then he sent me an odd text saying he loves me. Once you tell him how you discovered the information he’ll immediately shut down and feel that you violated the trust of your relationship. However, even though you “accidentally” discovered the information, now that you have it, it trumps any argument he can raise.

The primary reason to keep an online dating profile active is simple: TO MEET NEW WOMEN. None of these appears condusive to long term happiness--or is it just me? He may not flirt but likes the idea that women are looking at him. He doesn’t understand that he’s in a committed relationship.5.

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