liquidating debt decreases risk - Dating women with emotional problems
Where a Nice Guy is passive, hoping that mere proximity and obsequiousness will eventually win a woman’s heart, a White Knight is active, working to “rescue” a woman in “distress”.
Unlike an Orbiter, White Knights will actually take an active role with the women they’re drawn to, turning themselves into a combination protective – and – nurturing figure.
But we have found that the emotionally stunted man-child will have one of two (immature) responses when the issue is brought to his attention: 1. If he has issues to work out with her, he needs to do it before he invites another woman into his life.
What he really needs: To work through his co-dependency issues and learn how to cope with life on his own before involving anyone else. The Mama's Boy: The most important relationship a guy can have is with his mother.
(The Frisky) -- Let's face it -- we've all got issues and sometimes need multiple attempts to surmount emotional obstacles. Here's the important thing to remember: The Addict will ALWAYS be looking for a high. Even if he is sober from drugs/alcohol/gambling/food, if he hasn't done "the work," he may get hooked on you. That's why it's bad news if that relationship has gone wrong in some way. Whether he hates her or is obsessed with her, he is blind to the fact that he is replaying his relationship with his mom with every woman he gets involved with.