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Anyway, I reasoned, wouldn’t a Menno chap be just the kind of partner I’m looking for? I live two hours from the nearest Mennonite church, and I don’t attend every Sunday. Is this a question of my place on the liberal-conservative spectrum or of my belief in Mennonite pillars of faith?
The Mennonite community is traditionally rooted in hometown families. Or the famous Oakieburger that would place me as a member of Oak Grove Mennonite Church? The fact is that church identity—even one so solid both culturally and religiously as the Mennonite identity—is fluid.
If you are a Mennonite, your hometown can signal your place on the liberal-conservative spectrum, your possible economic level and the people you’d know by name. What is your interpretation of the Schleitheim Confession? It’s hard not to read between the lines and wonder what idealized version of Mennonites lurks behind each question.
The interview series has been such a success, I’m planning to extend it through the fall!
Thanks so much for bringing these interviews to life with your thoughtful and respectful questions.
Young people in the Mennonite church—especially the girls—don’t want to commit to marriage, either because they are too selfish or too idealistic for their own good. Esther, I really don’t think marriage (by which we mean sexual and emotional intimacy) is an idol, but a basic human desire. (Okay, so maybe food can be an idol, too.) But I would hate to say that all the people who so blithely wish marriage on me are idolators. That being said, I appreciated your thoughts, especially the last section, which highlights how greatly singles are needed in the Christian church.