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I feel very discouraged and I don't want to be gay anymore because of it.
It's beyond my control aside from giving conversion a try but I have no idea if it would work. @Saudade Duende I know this is cliche but I'm sure there's someone out there for you.
While it is true that due to stigma and discrimination of gays (not to mention that only 10-15% of the population is estimated to be gay) there are fewer venues/opportunities to meet mister right. Often there are reasons, of which we have control over that make dating and finding your match difficult.
To start with don't look at dating and finding true love as difficult, look at it as a challenge instead. Don't rush into love, it seldom ever happens that way.
I went on to date a number of trans guys, and in my mind, “bi” was also indicative of a gender binary I didn’t believe existed.
I’ve since come to understand that actually, the “bi” implies attraction not to two genders, but to members of both one’s own and other genders, and that the bisexual umbrella includes a wide rainbow of labels connoting sexual fluidity. Given all that struggle and growth, my current situation might come as a surprise: I’m in a committed, long-term relationship with a cisgender man who identifies as straight—just like a startling majority of other bisexual women.
So you end up wondering “What’s the matter with me? ” As an openly gay man with over thirty years of experience as a therapist, I have seen scores of single gay men sabotage their efforts to find a partner, placing obstacles in their own path —without having the slightest idea as to what they are doing and why.